Sabtu, 26 November 2011

Tragedi runtuhnya jembatan "Golden Gate-nya" kalimantan.

Peristiwa ini sungguh mengagetkan. Jembatan Sungai Mahakam yang sangat terkenal sebagai 'Golden Gate' Kalimantan dengan panjang 1 km itu runtuh, hampir tak bersisa.

Peristiwa itu terjadi Sabtu (26/11/2011) sekitar pukul 16.20 WITA. Tidak ada yang menyangka, lalu lintas saat itu sedang sangat ramai.

Tak cuma itu, puluhan warga juga sedang menikmati sore yang indah di pinggir jembatan yang bernama Jembatan Kutai Kartanegara itu. Tiba-tiba saja, bruk, jembatan ambrol. Mobil-mobil dan kendaraan yang sedang melintas pun berjatuhan ke sungai.

Tak lama, tim SAR tiba di lokasi untuk melakukan penyelamatan. Sejumalah orang telah ditemukan dan langsung dilarikan ke rumah sakit. Namun belum diketahui bagaimana kondisinya.

Jembatan itu sebenarnya relatif baru saja dibangun. Jembatan penghubung Samarinda dengan Tenggarong itu baru selesai dibangun pada tahun 2002. Jembatan itu belum bisa dibilang terlalu tua.
Jembatan sungai Mahakam (Mahkota 2) runtuh saat lalu lintas kendaraan sedang padat. Kemungkinan, ada banyak korban yang terjatuh ke sungai terbesar dan terpanjang se-Indonesia itu.

Namun berapa jumlah korban, belum bisa diketahui pasti. Namun saat ini tim SAR telah berada di lokasi untuk mencari korban.
Sejumlah korban telah diangkat dari Sungai Mahakam. Namun belum diketahui pasti bagaimana kondisi para korban.

Para korban kemudian dilarikan ke sejumlah rumah sakit terdekat. "Mereka dilarikan ke rumah sakit tadi, tim SAR juga masih terus mencari.

Korban diperkirakan masih banyak karena pada sore hari biasanya warga melewatkan waktu di badan jembatan yang dikenal sebagai Golden Gate-nya Kalimantan.

Jembatan itu runtuh sekitar pukul 16.20 Wita. Belum diketahui penyebab runtuhnya jembatan tersebut.

foto-foto jembatan "Golden Gate" mahakam di waktu masih berdiri kokoh :

Minggu, 25 September 2011

see this :)

ngilangin penat dikantor.... jam istirahat meluncur ke tepian sungai mahakam nonton aksi pejet ski samarinda..... :))))

dan ini video klip yg paling favorit.... :) bruno mars-lazy song :)

 hehehehe..... foto jadul alias foto jaman dulu yg satu-satunya masih tersisa....
kenangan bersama kaka perempuanku..... ;) i do miss you my big sister.... ;*

Senin, 04 Juli 2011

Inspirational Friendship Story

True friends never leave each other, even if one of them is walking on the wrong path of life. A true friend will try to correct the other in a way that it does not hurt the ego of the other friend. Friends don't mind when mistakes are pointed out; rather they try to accept it and change themselves for the better. True friends are those, who inspire others to become a better person in life. A number of inspirational stories are written, based on the theme of true friendship. They tend to inspire the reader. In this article, we have given a motivational story, based on friends.

Motivational Story Of Friendship

Two girls were best of friends, since their childhood. When they were small kids, they used to go to school together, play together and sometimes even stay at each other's places. They were next door neighbors and thus their parents were friends as well. The best friends graduated from school and went to pursue higher studies in the same college. Everyone knew that the girls were the best of friends. Nothing was hidden between the duo, because both knew each other inside out.

After some days, one of the friends found the other behaving in a very strange manner. She would remain withdrawn, sleep too much and turn violent, very often. At first, the other friend thought it was just the studies getting on to her. However, with time, she became even more moody and frustrated. Finally, her friend couldn't take it any longer and confronted her with the problem. She broke down into tears and confessed that she was going around with a guy, who was taking drugs and forced her to take them too.

The girl was not only forced to take drugs, but was also forced to bring money every now and then and was threatened with dire consequences, if she revealed the matter to anyone, even her best friend. Shocked by her story, the other friend consoled her. She then thought of a way to help her. Finally, she thought that she would come up straight to the point and tell her to leave this guy and get out of all the mess. She contacted the college counselor, who was a psychologist and narrated all the problem to her. She offered to help and said that matter would be kept under wraps.

The girl was then advised by her friend to leave this guy, as he was torturing her unnecessarily. Her friend reminded her of her dreams of becoming a successful professional, inspired her to set an example for others and reminded of what her parents would feel, if they found out what their daughter was up to. After a lot of persuasion, the girl finally agreed to leave him. She was given basic counseling and was weaned off drugs, with time. All this while, her friend never left her side and always stood by her.

Finally, they graduated and the friendship only grew stronger. They both went on to become successful professionals, but never let each other down by indulging themselves into bad habits. They lived happily ever after, as close friends. The story leaves the reader to think about the depth of friendship shared by the two girls. The moral of the story is that true friends are those, who inspire you to become the best you can ever be. They have full confidence in you. They would not leave you until your goal is accomplished.

Minggu, 22 Mei 2011

30 days in love...

I guess we are the left-overs in this world.

I think so...all of my friends have boyfriends, and we are the only the 2 people left in this world without any special person in our lives.

Yup, I don't know what to do.

I know! We'll play a game.

What game?

I'll be your girlfriend for 30 days
and you will be my boyfriend.

That's a great plan, in fact, I don't have anything to do
much for the following few weeks.

DAY 1:
They watch their first movie
and they both are touched by the romantic film.

DAY 4:
They went go to the beach and have a picnic. Derick and Lily have their quality time together.

DAY 12:
Derick invited Lily to a circus and they ride through a Horror House.
Lily was scared and she thought she touched Derick's hand but she actually touched someone else's hand they both laughed.

DAY 15:
They saw a fortune teller down the road, and they asked for their future advice.
The fortune teller said:
"My darlings, please don't waste the time of your life, spend the rest of your time together, happily." Then tears flowed out from the teller's eyes.

DAY 20:
Lily invited Derick to go to the hill
and they saw a meteor; Lily mumbled something.

DAY 28:
They sat on the bus, and because of a bumpy road Lily gave her first kiss to Derick by accident.

DAY 29:
11:37 pm:
Lily and Derick sat in the park where they first decided to play this game.

I'm tired Lily...Do you want anything to drink? I'll buy you one...I'll just go down the road.

An Apple Juice, that's all. Thank you.

Wait for me.

20 minutes later
A stranger approached Lily

Are you a friend of Derick?

Yes, why? What happened?

A reckless drunk driver ran over Derick, and he is in critical condition in the hospital.

11:57 pm:
The doctor walked out of the emergency room; he handed Lily an apple juice and a letter.

We found this in Derick's pocket.

Lily reads the letter and it says:
Lily, These past few weeks, I realized you are a really cute girl, and I am really falling for you-your cherished smile, your everything when we played this game. Before this game ends, I would like you to be my girlfriend for the rest of my life.
I love you, Lily.

Lily crumpled up the paper and shouted:

"Derick! I don't want you to die-
I love you; remember that night when we saw a meteor and I mumbled something. I mumbled that I wish we would be together forever and that we would never have to end this game. Please don't leave me Derick .. I love you! You can't do this to me!"

Then the clock strikes 12...

Derick's heart stopped pumping...

It was the 30th day.

Rabu, 20 April 2011

This is my speech about R.A KARTINI

Jika ingat hari kartini,pasti aku terkenang masa-masa dimana aku mengikuti lomba pidato(speech contest) berbahasa inggris untuk memperingati hari Kartini antar sekolah tempo dulu...hehehe...untung saja peserta laki-laki tidak dianjurkan memakai kebaya ^_^ HAHAHA...Yang menjadi kenangan terindah yaitu aku bisa menjadi finalisnya dan membawa pulang juara 1 ;)
Lucunya saat pengumuman pemenangnya dan namaku disebut,aku buru-buru lari ke kamar kecil(dasar masih culun,hahha),aku malu bercampur panas dingin karena ribuan pasang mata yang hadir saat itu mengarah padaku...Akhirnya aku meminta teman perempuanku untuk mewakilkan menerima trophy tersebut... :))
Berikut ini text pidato yang aku bawakan tersebut...

    Talking about indonesian women problem,we can not let it go from the history of indonesian women struggle in the past,that was movements by women,like R.A Kartini, Dewi sartika, Cut nyak dien, Nyi Ageng serang, etc. Those women aroused women spirit  to get out from foolness and oppression, to make woman dignity and prestige became equal at the same level with men.So,we can see that Indonesian woman now is forward looking.
   One of them,that is R.A Kartini as one the indonesian woman hero, that was born on 21 April 1879 in Jepara had a charming personality, progressive thinking and smart.
   In her time, Kartini lived and raised in a feudal neighbourhood that put woman in a low position. So that made her must in secluded. But in that secluded time,with her analyze ability come up a thought that she wanted to get out from suffering. She realised that was from woman foolness itself and man egoistic.
   From that Kartini thought that woman need an education, so that they can catch up the fact fallen behind man now. Due to Kartini spirit,now there are many major,minister,and maybe one day they also can be a president. But that progressive don't make women forget about their nature as a woman that has responsibility to be a housewife, and also they should take care of their family.
   Woman have an important role in the family, it's mean that for the progressive of intellectual nation,because in a mother hand can make a new generation who will continue the national development. 
   If we see the national condition right now,we are in bad economy and political crisis, many women being fired and the society lack of trust to the goverment, and it cause a bad impact to the society existence. Many riots happened, like in Jakarta, Ambon, Sambas, Banyuwangi, etc. And because of that, many women became a victim of violences. So, we as a strong Indonesian women will not willing if our nation  buried in continuous crisis. Let's Indonesian women stick together to build this country, teach your generations, create a peaceful situation in our beloving country, "INDONESIA"

Thank you very much for your kind attention to read to my speech.... :D
I close my speech by saying EMUUUUAAAHH WASSALAM..... ;)

Jumat, 08 April 2011


Dengan posisi sebagai "mitra sejajar" sekarang ini baik perempuan atau laki-laki bisa belajar banyak dari pasangannya. Di bawah ini ada beberapa tips yang bisa membantu Anda dan pasangan untuk saling bertukar informasi, meningkatkan keintiman di antara Anda berdua, dan saling memanfaatkan pengalaman masing-masing tanpa harus mengahancurkan ego masing-masing atau mengekang karakteristik pribadi Anda. 
  • Sadarilah bahwa , walaupun Anda saling mencintai, tidak berarti bahwa Anda pun memiliki kesamaan secara emosional. Anda bisa bereaksi secara berbeda terhadap seseorang atau kejadian-kejadian tertentu, karena Anda merupakan dua pribadi yang mempunyai pengalaman hidup yang berbeda.
  • Dengarkan baik-baik apa yang dikatakan pasangan Anda, dan cobalah menghargai pendapatnya. Mungkin cara dia melihat satu masalah, berbeda dari Anda, tetapi pendapatnya bisa memberi imbangan pada panndangan Anda.
  • Jika Anda tidak setuju atau merasa terganggu dengan sikapnya, tanyakan mengapa dia melakukan itu. Janganlah menuntut agar dia berubah. Tuntutan Anda bisa dipastikan akan membuat pasangan Anda mempertahankan diri atau marah, sehingga lebih sukar untuk mengaharapkan dia akan berubah. Dengan berkomunikasi, Anda tidak saja bisa mengetahui motivasinya dengan lebih baik, tetapi juga mungkin dia malah tergerak untuk mengintropeksi dirinya,memeriksa kembali perbuatan yang telah dilakukan.
  • Jangan cepat-cepat berkesimpulan bahwa reaksi negatif yang ditunjukan oleh pasangan Anda memang ditujukan kepada Anda. Hal ini mungkin peninggalan dari masa kecilnya, suatu perasaan disakiti dari masa kecilnya, atau frustasi karena ketidakmampuannya untuk mengatasi suatu masalah.
  • Pahami "alergi emosional" Anda sendiri, kepekaan yang khusus atau sesuatu yang bisa membuat Anda kesal, yang terbentuk karena proses bertahun-tahun lamanya. Juga "alergi emosional" pasangan Anda. Jika Anda berdua sudah menemukannya, usahakan untuk menghindari daerah rawan ini.
  • Usahakan untuk berdiskusi dalam suasana yang penuh toleransi dan tidak menghakimi. Yang terpenting, hindarkan sikap menyalahkan pasangan Anda. Cobalah untuk membagi ketakutan dan kekhawatiran dengan pasangan Anda. Hasilnya, Anda akan merasa semakin dekat! 

Rabu, 23 Maret 2011

when you're gone

I've been wandering around the house all night,wondering what the hell to do...
Yeah... i'm trying to concentrate,but all i can think of is you...
Well... the phone don't ring cuz my friend ain't home,i'm tired of being all alone...
Got the tv on cuz the radio's playing songs that remind me of you...
Baby...when you're gone,i realize i'm in love....
Days go on and on,and the night seem so long...
Even food don't taste that good,drink ain't doing what it should....
Thinks feel so wrong,baby when you're gone..

I've been driving up and down these streets,trying to find somewhere to go...
Yeah... i'm looking for familiar face,but there's no one i know...
Oh.... this is torture,this pain, feels like i'm gonna go insane...
I hope you're coming back real soon.cuz i don't know what to do....

Rabu, 16 Maret 2011


  • Everything works out in the end,if it hasn't worked out,it's not the end...never regret your past,only regret if you don't learn from it....
  • In life...God doesn't give you the people you want,he gives you the people you need,to teach you,to hurt you,to love you,to make you laugh,to make you the person you should be...
  • We will never be alone in this world,know why??? coz we have our loving family... We will never be alone in this world,know why??? coz we have our true friends... We will never be alone in this world,know why??? coz God will always be with you,no matter what,God will always support you...
  • perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while,so that we can see life with a clearler view again....
  • Sometimes you gotta run away to see who runs after you....Sometimes you gotta talk quieter to see who's listening...Sometimes you will make mistakes to see who will fix it...
  • There are times to be quiet,times to speak your mind,times to leave and times to stay but whatever you do,do it for the right reasons and live without regret....

Jumat, 11 Maret 2011

Ringkasan Rahasia

  • Rahasia besar kehidupan adalah hukum tarik menarik.
  • Hukum tarik menarik mengatakan bahwa kemiripan menarik kemiripan. Jadi,ketika Anda memikirkan suatu pikiran, Anda juga menarik pikiran pikiran serupa ke diri Anda.
  • Pikiran bersifat magnetis,dan pikiran memiliki frekuensi. Ketika Anda memikirkan pikiran pikiran,pikiran pikiran itu dikirim ke Semesta, dan secara magnetis pikiran akan menarik semua hal serupa yang berada di frekuensi yang sama. Segala sesuatu yang dikirim ke luar akan kembali ke sumbernya-Anda.
  •  Anda seperti sebuah menara penyiaran, yang memancarkan frekuensi dengan pikiran pikiran Anda. Jika Anda ingin mengubah sesuatu di dalam hidup anda,ubahlah frekuensi dengan mengubah pikiran Anda.
  •  Pikiran yang sedang Anda pikirkan saat ini sedang menciptakan kehidupan masa depan Anda. Apa yang paling Anda pikirkan atau fokuskan akan muncul sebagai hidup Anda.
  • Pikiran Anda menjadi sesuatu.

Sabtu, 05 Maret 2011


Hidup ibarat facebook,orang akan "LIKE" masalah kita dan "COMMENT",tetapi tidak seorangpun menyelesaikannya karena mereka sibuk meng"UPDATE" masalah mereka sendiri...

Rabu, 23 Februari 2011

i love replay

Kebahagiaanmu adalah kebebasan untuk melakukan yang ingin kau lakukan, dan dalam melakukannya engkau dikenali dengan kekayaan yang utuh.